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confusion on ex
| Fri, 04-23-2004 - 12:15am |
My ex and I have been seperated now for about 2 1/2 months. At first we voided contact with each other. Which was awkard at first cause we hang out at the same place and have some mutual friends. I had enough feeling awkard so I made the first move by talking to him. Which turned out for the best. It proved to him that I'm ok with our seperation. Which I really am but not sure if he is yet or what is going on with him. I have been noticing alot of his comments that he has been making and thinking to our past. It dawned on me that he still isnt over me and wants to get back together but doesnt know how to go about it. For instance some of his comments were: he lives about the same distance as you (acting rude about it), telling me to apply at his work but was like oh that is right you need north of where im at, apply for a job right up the street there hiring (see I lost my job a few weeks ago), what about looking around this area meaning where he lives and moving down to the same area. Hes so different now that its hard to explain. I know when we were together he had alot of things going on which didnt help at all but he made the decision to end it which I was starting to drift away cause I didnt want to deal with it anymore. But now with things back to normal for the both of us I really truly believe that he is realizing that he was wrong on how he handled things. I know that we still care for each other alot. But why does he make these comments that he has been making? I know if we would get back together there will have to be some changes or otherwise it wont work out. I do care about him and I have moved on with my life but deep down we still know that we should be together but how do we go about it all?
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| Fri, 04-23-2004 - 2:06am |
hi, my advice to you is to stop assuming you know what this guy is feeling or thinking. because lets face they do some strange things at times, so i think you should just continue being his friend. if he does think that he made a mistake he may have to much pride to come out and tell you that, but the more friendly you become to each other the more likely he will open up and just tell you. do you want to get back together? hope this helps
