Could he be interested?

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Registered: 08-07-2004
Could he be interested?
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Sat, 08-07-2004 - 1:41pm
Hey guys,

So I've been out of the dating game for 5 years after my fiance left me. I'm ready to go out there and date, but I don't know what I am or am not supposed to do.

I went out on a blind date 2 weeks ago, and it went great. He suggested we should call each other and I said I'd like that. I waited a week, but no reply. Then, a week later (day before yesterday), I actually called but didn't leave a message. Is there a chance he's still interested?

The excuses I can think of are that he's a busy doctor, and the fact that in about a month, I'm moving 2 hours away for about 6 months, but I'll be back. Since I'm just getting into the dating thing, perhaps I acted too excited on our date, but I was just being myself. He has not called our mutual friend, and I'm afraid to keep asking him because he's a better friend with him. I don't want to seem pathetic. Is there hope?

TW

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 08-07-2004 - 1:47pm
Sorry to be pessimistic, but I would say not. If he were really interested, you would have no doubt of it...he'd have set up a second date while you were on the first, or at a minimum have called within a day or two of your first date.

I'd move on, and let go of any hopes or expectations with this guy. There are other fish in the sea!

Sheri