Could it be a sign,or usual overreacting
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Could it be a sign,or usual overreacting
| Thu, 11-11-2004 - 11:03pm |
I know alot of people think I'm over reacting but I'm not quite convinced. In a discution I started before I told you guys about a guy named Danny and how I just asked him out when he just got out of a relationship. Well he still hasn't answered me and the reason is this. I guess last friday he was at a friends house and now saposidly he's sapose to be going out with this other chick or so his friends told him and myself. I asked him for his answer before all of this happened and he told me it would have to wait untill he had all of this mess figured and worked out. Could this in any way mean that he is leaning towards a yes? As if I haven't told you enough already. Just last night I had a dream about Danny. It was weird because I wasn't even thinking about him last night. But any way I think,(I can't quite remember it all but), I was dancing or just got out of the shower or something,(because I was missing my shirt, but any way), all of a sudden there was Danny. He came over to me and hugged me.(these parts I remember well), In my dream I said "So I guess this is a yes then?" and he held me closer and replied "Yes". It was so real and it was so romantic. especially the way the hug went. It felt warm and comforting.It sucked though because after that I woke up. But for the rest of the day all I could feel was that hug as if it really happened. He still hasn't answered me but I really wonder what he'll say. Can dreams link you to your future. Is it posible to see what will happen in your dreams? Well thanks anyway for any help you provide for me. I apreciate it alot.
Dragonsbabybluexxx
Edited 11/11/2004 11:26 pm ET ET by dragonsbabyblue
Dragonsbabybluexxx
Edited 11/11/2004 11:26 pm ET ET by dragonsbabyblue

I can totally relate to your mentioning a dream you had of your prospective love
interest. My guy friend P. has been in my life these passed months during
a very transitional healing period,sad over my parents untimely death. We met
in a local restaurant,he's a maitre di,gave me extra attention,resulted in him asking me]
out. Went on several very nice dates,great conversations and shared many common interests,
family backgrounds,hobbies,lifes career paths,etc. We also had alot of chemistry,physical and intellectual attractions,hours passed quickly. P. and I could converse with such
ease,no tensions,feelings like we'd known one another forever,(as he had expressed to
me thru phonecalls). Due to his job change,further distance,long hours phonecalls are less,dates seem hard to keep as his hours are so long,with only 1 day off. I miss him, being more assertive(usually shy)I called him. We chatted alot,but he hasn't asked to get together on his time off. Instead usually says he's so exhausted,has less free time and stopped coaching basketball that was a weekly event. I'm feeling so confused and very
lonely. Said to him of us seeing each other,he'd say yes,somehow he's vague in setting
a date. Don't know if he's met someone else,as he's quite attractive(looks like a young Cris Walken),and is very personable. All I can tell you is don't be afraid to ask him out and express how you feel about him. I only wish I could tell P. how I feel about him without sounding too needy or possessive,as we've not been dating too long. He did ask me to his place.left message on my voicemail one night,but I was at my niece's home and it was very late when I called him back.He still wanted me to go over and asked if he could pick me up.Reasons being I didn't have my car available,it was in repairs. He said that he was tired and didn't feel like coming to pick me up. So I felt guilty and apologized for not having a way to get to him(in a town with infrequent public transportation). Cried that night,wanted to see him,as I just lost my mom to cancer recently,he was very supportive.Felt I didn't go out of my way the one time he asked me to his place(for the first time),as he'd been to mine(we talked alot,kissed alott,nothing else due my brother popping over,c'est l'vie)I know he felt as strongly attracted to me as I was to him then. Somehow our timing for more intimacy and romance seems interupted. Be spontaneous,if he responds to you by all means get together.Life is too short if you feel that strongly about this fellow,I wish you good luck. I recently drempt of my mom being alive
sitting with me in our living room,looked healthy and her pretty self smiling,at me and
my special friend P. We were on the sofa,like that night he came and were hugging,holding hands and he kissed me. It's as though mom wants me to be with him. I'm spiritual and
pray for St. Ann(patron St. of single women to give some devine interventions in my
my belief that mom wants me to be with P(she met him a few times,and liked him very
much. Best wishes, Bellina
Cassy
well maybe that's not true...your dreams occur b/c of events that happen in your life. in your case the boy and its uncertainity. dreams don't mean anything, they don't forsee anything, even if you look the 'symbols' up in a dream dictionary that means nothing. its all crap so that ppl will buy it
but they occur b/c you were obviously thinking about this issue and your concerned. so if you feel that this was a 'sign' then go ahead and persue it.
Thanks for your reply and kind words regarding my dear mom. As far as your dream, I
strongly feel that he is worth the time in getting to know. In response to
the previous poster,they are negative in their viewpoints of dreams and the messages
that are part of our subconscious. I'm not saying all dreams are quite factual,but
read Physic author Sylivia Browne's book on Dreams,Passed Lives,Healing after
losing someone. Whether you've lost someone dear to death,or they've moved,relocated,Sylivia believes they can send us sort of lessons,messages in our
dreams. Especially in times of concern be it for love,health or business related,dreams usually have hidden messages,although not always. All I can tell you
is follow your heart and if he's meant to be a love interest it will happen! I
too have faith that we're all here to work,find inner peace and someone to be
a friend foremost and soulmate in love to complete ourselves. Like Paul McCartney's song says,We can Work It out and All you Need is Love...Cheers,Bellina(your Brit friend)