Could she be interested?

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Could she be interested?
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Wed, 12-21-2005 - 7:38pm
I've been taking this class and I talked to this girl once in a while. I was not sure if she had a boyfriend or not. She is really cute and was just too nervous to ask her out. We were assigned by the teacher to the same group and the last day of class, she walked out of class with her friends and I didnt get a chance to say goodbye. Next day I got an email from her saying how nice it was to have me in her class and that it had been nice talking to her. Could this be a sign of interest? I just get so nervous around her, its so hard for me to talk to her because I feel like an idiot when I do because I don't know what to say. I'm just wondering what you guys think and how should I ask her out!? Thanks.
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Registered: 12-14-2005
Wed, 12-21-2005 - 7:50pm
Yes, she could very possibly be interested! Whether in friendship or more is to be determined. But she definitely thinks that you have value and appreciates you. She didn't have to send you an email at all! Jump on that email and ask her to get together for something casual/non-date like so you won't be nervous. Best of luck.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 12-22-2005 - 9:06am

Yes! It shows interest! Definitely get in touch with her. Tell her that you're glad you got to have her in class too. Then just throw in something casual like "we should grab a coffee sometime" (or something to that effect), if she agrees, then just say "how about Wednesday?".

You have NOTHING to lose. If you DON'T ask, it's an automatic "no". If you do ask, you have at least a 50% chance of a yes, and if it turns out to be a "no", then you're where you are now. See? Nothing lost.

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Go for it!

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Thu, 12-22-2005 - 9:18am
Email her back and ask for her phone number. Don't think, ask her out. You have absolutely nothing to lose.
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Thu, 12-22-2005 - 1:51pm
Thank you guys for your responses, this has helped me out. Its just its not as easy as you girls think asking a girl out, especially one that we really like. I have had my fair share of rejections, but when its a girl we REALLY like, its a can be a major blow to our ego and heart:) Thanks.