Coworker

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Registered: 04-18-2004
Coworker
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Sun, 11-06-2005 - 10:36pm
Here it is. I think I'm falling for a coworker. Bad thing is I'm a female and she's a female. We had classes together in school, she remembers me but I don't remember her. I have been attracted to other females at other times but this feels different. It seems as if she may be interested too. I don't know her well enough to know whether she is or not. She's given little hints, she touched my butt, laid her head on my shoulder, and even said I should have gone in her room to cuddle - and we haven't really know each other long enough for it to be that "typical" female thing. I'm not sure what to do or how to act. I have only thought about her the past week. Any advice, comments, suggestions will be appreciated. So confused.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 8:50am

frazzled n confused...

Are you strong enough to take the initiative to bring this issue up?

PG suggests that you do this after work (at dinner) or during the weekend when the 2 of you are NOT ON COMPANY TIME!

Once you bring the subject up, the response you receive from this woman will either be very flattered....or go into TOTAL SHOCK! Ultimately, this might the friendship the 2 of you have acquired from working together?

But unless you get the issue out into the open, you'll continue to remain "bewitched, bothered and bewildered!" (It's an obvious song quote...but I'm sure you get the idea?).

Good Luck!

Pianoguy

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Registered: 03-09-2005
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 11:40am
I'm a straight female and I have NEVER ever touched any of my female friends butt or laid my head on their shoulder or told them if they wanted to cuddle. I don't think its "typical female" thing. I think you should go for it.
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 11-07-2005 - 1:24pm
Suggest getting coffee together and see where the conversation goes.
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Registered: 04-18-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 9:58pm
I have had a best friend, known for a long time, that has kissed me on the check - on the cheek only. Thanks for your input.
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Registered: 04-18-2004
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 10:01pm
Well, seeing as I have to work with her every day, I don't think I can be so bold and bluntly mention it. It would just create an akward situation if it was an incorrect assumption. Now that we're back in our regular enviornment it seems as if she's ignoring maybe. Maybe it's just because we're at work or something else?