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| Sun, 04-02-2006 - 5:16pm |
I posted this on my "other" board, but thought I'd post it here, too, because I'm feeling quite down about it today.
::sigh::
So I have another crush.
| Sun, 04-02-2006 - 5:16pm |
I posted this on my "other" board, but thought I'd post it here, too, because I'm feeling quite down about it today.
::sigh::
So I have another crush.
Where do you know your crush from?
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We’re in the same adult ed class at uni. I keep waiting for an opportunity to get him alone for a minute, but he’s always busy talking to someone else. I’ve noticed the "looks" months ago – like, even when he’s talking to someone else, he’s looking at me. And, if I leave the room, he’s looking toward the door when I come back. But he’s never said a word. Probably because I’m quiet and shy. I’ve often been told I’m "intimidating". I hate this so much.
Anyway, the class will be over in 2 weeks, so I might never see him again. Le big sigh.
As for you : I know you’re scared, but I think you should ask him to dance! What have you got to lose? You already know he likes you. When are you seeing him again?
I use to think the same way until a co-worker of mine found out about a crush I have had on a another co-worker for close to 5 years and took it upon himself to fix us up. (He is my crush's immediate Supervisor). This happened in November and my crush and I, albeit taking it very slowly, have become great friends and working towards being more. I have not had a date with him yet as he is a bit shy and divorce ravaged. I can see him progressing nicely and now when I see him (he works on the other side of the floor) I have butterflies in my stomach. We spend a lot of time on the phone and his self esteem is pretty shot and he's gained some weight and knows that he needs to work through that in order to be a better man for me. It is no secret that I like him and he has recently begun to grow a beard that he was going to shave until I made it perfectly clear that I absolutely love it. (He is hot with a beard with the gray and dark hair mixed) Not sure what the future holds but having my crush find out the truth was the best thing ever.
So be optimistic and I say go for it.
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