the current girlfriend needs to go

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-10-2004
the current girlfriend needs to go
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Mon, 12-13-2004 - 10:53pm
Hello- I'm back!
I have left a message on a previous day concerning my ex boyfriend and the present dilemma that I am facing. The girlfriend really needs to go- or should I say the 32 year olds present 23 year old girlfriend!!! We went for dinner again tonight and ran into a friend of the girlfriend- it was an awkward situation- yet - I removed myself from it. Stood outside and waited for him to explain why he was out with a woman who was not his girlfriend. He explained to me that he spoke the truth and informed the friend not to tell the girlfriend- I actually hope she tells her- Ha!! a little sh%^ stirring don't you think. Anyway, here's the current dilemma- I cannot stand to hear anymore about his girlfrien- he doesn't seem to think that it bothers me b/c I am great at covering that up- but should I say something to him about my feelings or should I keep enjoying the friendship that we have- "on the sly"- meaning the friendship we have that she doesn't know about- Second- how do I get him back- b/c I have decided I want to- is it possible for an ex girlfriend to get back a man who obviously cares about me- maybe on a platonic level- yet has a current girlfriend? Am I making any sense? And why is he calling me the second he drops her off at work and spending time with me when she is not around?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2003
Tue, 12-14-2004 - 4:28pm
One thing I think is that if he wanted to be with you he would be and he wouldn't have a "girlfriend" other than you...

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-20-2004
Tue, 12-14-2004 - 4:38pm

I doubt you have to tell him you are interested he probably knows. If your "friendship" is on the sly it's no doubt he wants to fool around with you and keep his girlfriend. If you truly were just platonic friends the girlfriend could know about you.

Sounds like a great catch. *end sarcasm*