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Date Rape
| Tue, 09-27-2005 - 5:24am |
Help! My 18 yo daughter went out with three male friends from her work who gave her alcohol and cocaine. They are all over 21 and know that she is not. After they got her "messed up" they all had sex with her. She still thinks she should keep working with them and be friends. She confided this to me but she hasn't eaten or slept and cries uncontrollably. My greatest concern is her health (mental and physical). Any ideas or resources for me. I feel desperate.

I'm very sorry for you. My friend in high school was gang raped essentially when she and a friend all went out with a group of "friends" (so called) they all were drinking, she went into a car with the guy she liked started making out with him and she passed out, then as she kept coming in and out of consciousness a different guy was on top of her.
I would strongly suggest contacting the authorities, has she showered??? if not get her to the hospital to have a rape kit done and get her into counseling.
Hugs this must be terrifying for you.
www.4woman.gov
National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-SAFE or 800-787-3224 (TDD).
Boys & Girls Town National Hotline at 1-800-448-3000.
These may give you some guidance. Also, your family physician or school counselor.
Press charges, I wish I would have over 13 years ago. It's the only way to stop these snakes from doing it again.
Get her out of the work situation where these men can re-victimize her. If she can open up now this is a good thing, that is the only way I got through it. I would seek professional help for her if she's ready to do so. If not just re assure her it's not her fault and try to be supportive until she does open up or wants the help. I am sending positive thoughts your way.
http://www.rainn.org/