The date is tomorrow, but so far no call
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The date is tomorrow, but so far no call
| Thu, 11-24-2005 - 12:14pm |
Hello all,
i recently posted a message about a guy i started to date 2 weeks ago. We went on our first date two weeks ago, we had a great time, but to me everything seems to be going really slow. Anyways, i called him last Sunday and we planned a date for Friday, which is tomorrow. The whole week has gonne by, but so far no contact has happened between us. No email, no IM, no calls about any plans for tomorrow. So today being Thursday, i'm starting to wonder what's going on here....I'm starting to think this guy is not into me, or really what's going on? What's your advise on this? Should i try some sort of contact by tonight or wait for him to do so? What's this guy's deal? I'm getting frustrated...
Thanks to all that reply.
i recently posted a message about a guy i started to date 2 weeks ago. We went on our first date two weeks ago, we had a great time, but to me everything seems to be going really slow. Anyways, i called him last Sunday and we planned a date for Friday, which is tomorrow. The whole week has gonne by, but so far no contact has happened between us. No email, no IM, no calls about any plans for tomorrow. So today being Thursday, i'm starting to wonder what's going on here....I'm starting to think this guy is not into me, or really what's going on? What's your advise on this? Should i try some sort of contact by tonight or wait for him to do so? What's this guy's deal? I'm getting frustrated...
Thanks to all that reply.

If you planned a date for Friday night, I think it's perfectly acceptable for him to call you by tomorrow mid-afternoon to make the specific plans.
If you haven't heard from him by, say, 3 or 4 PM tomorrow, then a call to ask if you're still on would be in order.
If you've only been dating for 2 weeks, I don't think between date phone calls are necessary or to be expected.
Sheri
<< Anyways, i called him last Sunday and we planned a date for Friday, which is tomorrow. >>
I wouldn't contact him. Leave it up to him to contact you and confirm with you. It's only a second date ... at this stage, talking between dates isn't necessarily a sign of "not being into you" ... I think it would be perfectly acceptable for him to call and confirm that night before (tonight).
If you don't hear from him by tomorrow afternoon, and you still want to keep the date, my advice would be to let him know that it would be good if he could confirm the day before.
It's all about communication. At this point, you don't know each other's communication styles. It's up to you to let him know what you'd like. And if he likes you, he'll take that into consideration for next time. :)
Why would you want to date a guy who just went on and on about his ex girlfriends???
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