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|Mon, 01-13-2014 - 10:06am|
I am trying to give serious effort in to finding someone. After spending the majority of my 20’s in school and concentrating on my career, I was feeling now that I am in my 30’s I should start concentrating on other things in life, like finding someone.
So after a few months of giving online dating a try, I found some that I had some things in common with and we started chatting outside of the dating site via email, and now have moved on to texting.
My problem is this, I have been single for considerable amount of time (a few years), and I think I have become a little too comfortable in my single life. In the past couple of years I have become the person to vocal express how I would like to find someone for myself and that I can never seem to find someone.
Now that I may have found some who I may consider dating, I feel like I have been launched into some kind for panic. I haven’t even met this person face to face ( the idea of it makes me noshes.), and I am already thinking I don’t want this person to change my life, or change me. I don’t think this is normal, but is this something that other people have gone through, and how did they deal ?. I know and understand I have to make a change if I want any person in my life, How do I deal with this ?. I’m really scared about the idea of dating again and seem to pick the person apart to find a reason not to.