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| Sun, 05-28-2006 - 10:15pm |
I've only gone on couple dates with a guy and things seem to be going great. after each date he says that he will call. I hate waiting for the guy to make all the moves, do I just wait and let him and see where it goes? He seems to be interested but I just never know when he says he's going to call that he actually means it.I'd like to call and ask him to lunch this week but I dont know how he would feel about it. what should I do?

I call or email, but keep it on a back and forth. My thoughts, if you don't want me to call... don't give me your number. If I don't want someone to call me, I don't give them my number. Frankly, men are human beings with all the same feelings, fears, as we have. I prefer to start off at the same level and try to put myself in their place. See no reason why you can't call and ask him out to lunch. I don't believe he should have to make all the dates, forced to figure out what to do, etc. I surely would not like to be in that position.
What I won't do is chase. But that is because I don't trust anyone who is chasing me. I will give opportunity and take the opportunity they return. If it isn't taken, then move on - give them the same respect for their decision as you expect when you don't feel it is right or are not interested, even if their reason seems that it is because they don't know you and if they did they would change their mind. There may be other reasons, etc. If they see something that won't work, trust that decision before you spend a lot of time in it. If he is busy or can't make it, then leave the door open by saying to call you when he is available. Wouldn't assume he is not interested because he said no, but if he doesn't return the call - I would just move on.
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