Dating again.. with someone new..(M)
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Dating again.. with someone new..(M)
| Tue, 08-10-2004 - 10:12am |
Hi all. I have a question. I'm going out with this sweet
new man. I also work with him. He works a different shift
than I do.. And I REALLY like him. We're supposed to go
out thursday. I'm kind of nervous. I haven't been with
someone since my last boyfriend and we we're together for
a year. What do I do if he tries to kiss me? I want him too.
Don't get me wrong. I just want this to work out and to take
things slow. And not jump into things that fast. If you know
what I mean. I would love to do that. But, I want a real relationship
with this man. I want it to last and to be everything my last
relationship wasn't.
Truthfully, I'm scared to death. Because, I already like this man,
and it's obvious he likes me. He likes for me to come and talk to
him on his breaks at night. And he already wanted to come to my
house and see what my life is like(i guess). I don't know. I
guess that I'm just nervous and exicted. Because, I know I
have a chance with a good guy who will treat me right. This
I know. B.c he's seems so sweet. He babysits his nephew all the
time and he always runs errands for his mom and older brother.
I'm not used to guys like this. The last three men I dated all lied
and used me. So, I guess I just wanted some advice on how not to
get my heart broken and to set my hopes up high. Thanks for listening
I just needed to talk about it..

That said, have fun on this *interview* as my friend calls it. Try not to let your hormones get in the way, keep the blinders off and try not to drink alcohol. When your date is over, leave by yourself- you will be more likely to give in to hormonal temptation if you leave together. Since you say you want a relationship with this guy, you don't want to just jump in the sack together. If he kisses you, by all means kiss him back, but don't allow it to go into a grope/ make out session.
Let us know what happens.