Dating and kissing two different guys?
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| Mon, 09-13-2004 - 8:13pm |
I need your advice.
Three months ago, I was dating a guy that lives near me. I was starting having feelings for him, I felt chemistry, but I never really felt 100% confortable wiht him (no sex, either). Then he did domething I didn't like, I didn't know if he was speaking the truth, but despite that, I didn't like his behaviour, it's not something I would like a boyfriend to do. I stoped contact with him.
Then, 1 month ago, I met online a wonderful guy that lives 3 hours apart from me (on another city). He came visit me last Sunday, we spend the day together, talking, walking around, and by the end of the day we gave each other a lovely kiss goodbye. He was nice, my intuition was positive about him. I really miss his company when he was gone to his city. He pretends to return and visit me again, and start dating for us to know each other better. We already talk about taking things slowly (in fact, it was him who told me that and I agreed).
Then, today, the other one called me, saying he miss me so much, want to meet me and start over again.
I don't know what to do. I really don't know these two guys very well. My intuition tells me the one from another city it's a really nice guy (consistent in words and actions, till now). This other one, did that thing I didn't like, but I guess I don't really know him to judge him correctly. What to do? I don't know if I could handle dating and kissing two guys! I never did that, kinda awkward for me, I guess. I don't want to feel bad about myself, or be with one and thinking about the other. Well, but I'm not commited to none. What do you advice me?
| Mon, 09-13-2004 - 9:20pm |
