Dating Confusion
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| Wed, 03-31-2004 - 6:12pm |
I am 20 years old and have never had a serious relationship with anyone. I have had 1 friends with benefits relationship with a guy for a year now. Basically we just sleep together and have a small talk and then I leave. I of course, have fallen for the guy, but he honestly isnt in it for a relationship, which is cool.
My problem is, that I dont understand why I am never asked on dates or should I say I "infrequently" get asked on dates. And when I am asked out, the only thing the guy seems to want is sex, never just to know me as a person. Im heavy set, but not overly fat, pretty curly red head with green eyes. I know Im not a perfect 10, but Im pretty. Im also very open and funny, and yet they only want sex! I have tried going on a date and stating right off the bat that Im not in it for the sex, that will have to come much later, and then it seems like they get the hell away from me as fast as I can. Is there some kind of vibe that makes men think I would be that way?
Im not sure if I even wrote this in a way that is clear, I hope I did, but I need advice from both men and women. Im so confused!

But a lot of times, it's just a numbers game...
Hope this helps.