dating dilemma

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2006
dating dilemma
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Wed, 07-26-2006 - 6:22pm

I am in a dating dilemma. I was corresponding with a guy online and had spoken to him once over the phone and we decided to meet up as he was visiting my town for a few days.

He wrote to me saying ' I look forward to seeing you.I keep looking at your
photos. you're absolutely gorgeous. Is it bad that i'm already having thoughts
of kissing those lips?

I took offence to these words as we had not even met and here he was talking about getting physical. I wrote back saying I was concerned that he may only be seeing me as a physical entity and not taking me seriously. He then said that it is best for us not to pursue this as he is offended by my reaction!

I am now wondering if I gave up what could have been a great potential or if he really did sound like a weirdo who was moving too fast?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 10:28pm

He sounded like a weirdo that was moving way too fast and making the assumption things were going to get physical. You gave him an opportunity to apologize and he didn't.

You did the right thing. A true gentleman would never have made that assumption.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2006
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 11:01pm
I agree. And his reaction was way weirdo. Don't meet him.