In a dating dilemma! Need advice!!
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In a dating dilemma! Need advice!!
| Sun, 10-10-2004 - 2:12am |
I'm very confused right now about my current dating situation...
I have two guys who I'm seeing who I both really like and enjoy spending time with. One of the guys is a guy who was my boyfriend for a year who I still am in love with, but the thing is, he hurt me a few months ago when he ended the relationship. I was devestated beyond belief, but as time went on him and I were just casully dating, I started seeing whatelse is out there, and was pleasantly surprised! I met this really great guy who has wonderful morals, has a great heart, is pretty cute, intelligent, and he's the captain of a division one baseball college team! My family likes him, too! The one problem with him though, is that he is not from this area. I am from PA and he's from Florida, so most likely if he doesn't get drafted he's going to move back.
I have two guys who I'm seeing who I both really like and enjoy spending time with. One of the guys is a guy who was my boyfriend for a year who I still am in love with, but the thing is, he hurt me a few months ago when he ended the relationship. I was devestated beyond belief, but as time went on him and I were just casully dating, I started seeing whatelse is out there, and was pleasantly surprised! I met this really great guy who has wonderful morals, has a great heart, is pretty cute, intelligent, and he's the captain of a division one baseball college team! My family likes him, too! The one problem with him though, is that he is not from this area. I am from PA and he's from Florida, so most likely if he doesn't get drafted he's going to move back.
My old boyfriend, who I still love, wants to be serious with me again and claims that he knows we can do things differently this time. But I have this fear that he'll hurt me again........my major problem here is that I can't seem to make a decision and I can't seem to let either of them go. If I go with my ex who I love, he may hurt me again...and if I get serious with the guy from my college, he may leave and go back to florida and I'll be hurt that way too......ughhh...any advice?? Thx :)

You do have quite a dilemma. I know it is hard to make a decision ( what if you make the wrong one!) Well, welcome to life! We have all been there, including me.
The ex has already hurt you, so there is a degree of trust that isn't there anymore. The baseball player, who's to say that he won't stay or you won't go with him????? You need to move on from the past and into the present and future, whether that is with the baseball player or someone else.
It's about finding someone that completes you and makes you want to be a better person, not that wants to change you.
Godd Luck!!