Dating friend's brother...
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| Sat, 04-17-2004 - 5:25am |
She introduced to me to him and we both became interested in each other, so she kind of set us up. At first she was really excited about the whole thing, which was nice, but now I feel like she doesn't want us to go out anymore. I think it has a lot to do with him not having very much free time to spend with her anymore.
Anyways, he's done a few annoying things like not calling lately, and I don't know if its appropriate to discuss it with her, like I don't feel like I can complain or be mad about it just because they are brother and sister, and I don't want her to say anything to him. I trust her with not telling him everything I say, but I know that she's not to keen anymore about us going out so I'm a little wary. What do you guys think about the situation?
I really like him a lot, but he is quite older than me...actually 8 years which is a bit much, but I don't feel the age difference at all. When we first started dating we would get together about 3 times a week and everything was absolutely perfect, and now that its been about a month, he's acting a little strange. The last time we got together it was so nice, and we left on really good terms, him telling me to call him anytime about anything. The thing is, since then we haven't done anything this whole week which seems weird to me, I don't know if he is freaked out by us going too fast or if he's losing interest. Do I call him even though he's supposed to return my call? Or do I just have to cool it for a while and not seem clingy?? Its really kind of getting to me, but I don't want to come off as a stalker or anything.
I suppose this is really two questions, I would really appreciate any feedback you could give me!
