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| Sat, 05-01-2004 - 11:04pm |
My boyfriend lied about his age a lot, have secrets, mentions ex name while making love and says he did not mean it, has unpredictable mood swings, unpredictable emotions.
We are both falling in love with each other but somehow we are also both confused. This is a long distance relationship and I know it's not easy. I suspect menopausal stage is part of his problem.
Am I foolish or in love or insane? I miss him. The distance is hard and we need better ways to communicate. We don't even have date nite. My gut tells me something is questionnable but I find myself forgiving him for everything. I don't want to make a mistake. Afterall, it's my future. Can someone please knock my head open and show me the way?

You said you don't want to make a mistake. The current situation you have right now isn't?!?!?
Who am I to say why you are with him? You have to ask yourself WHY you accept and tolerate his behavior, even in the midst of your doubts.
You get what you choose to have for yourself. No one here can show you the way except to give an opinion, like mine, to say that this is not a healthy or positive relationship. How much you are willing to sacrifice of yourself, your body, your sanity, your time, your emotions is a choice you have to make. Is what you have now the kind of future you want to live?
You say you miss him which is natural, I suppose, but at what cost?
My boyfriend lied about his age a lot
have secrets
mentions ex name while making love and says he did not mean it,
has unpredictable mood swings,
unpredictable emotions
My gut tells me something is questionnable
I find myself forgiving him for everything.
honey