dating question

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
dating question
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Tue, 09-04-2007 - 1:38pm
If a guy likes a woman is it better if he gives his number to her, like on a note, or ask for her number?

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Avatar for northwestwanderer
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jackmoin
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 2:24pm

I prefer it when a guy asks for my number.

Sheri

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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: jackmoin
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 5:43pm
I cant answer for all men, but I would think that if a guy asks a woman for her number that he has some interest in her.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
In reply to: jackmoin
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 3:47pm
No I what I meant was is it do you prefer if a guy gave his number to you or if he asked for yours or both?
Avatar for blondie0506
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: jackmoin
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 4:45pm

I prefer a guy to ask for my number. If I'm not interested, I won't give him the number. I'll just say "I'm flattered, but I don't think it's a good idea".

But if I AM interested, I'll give him my number, and by HIS asking ME, it shows his interest in me. Then if he actually calls, then I KNOW he's interested.

And it shows he's not afraid to pursue what he wants.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
In reply to: jackmoin
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 6:35pm

I'm so frustrated cuz i'm AFRAID to pursue what I want. I have gotten like 3 or 4 numbers
from women just in the past few months but afraid to call. What do you suggest I do?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: jackmoin
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:10pm
Under normal conditions, I prefer a man to ask me for my number. Then I would ask for his in exchange.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: jackmoin
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:12pm
Why would you be afraid to pursue what or who you want?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
In reply to: jackmoin
Wed, 09-05-2007 - 8:40pm
I don't know. Do you have any suggestions to get over my fear? How should I "pursue" what I like or want?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: jackmoin
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 10:29am
Unless you can identify specifically what you are afraid of..you really cant do anything to overcome it. Sorry.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2007
In reply to: jackmoin
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 12:19pm
So do women consider a guy like me a wimp or sissy?

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