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| Wed, 12-06-2006 - 6:53am |
I feel like I am never very good at this issue.. I never know what to do..
I met a guy a while back, and he called me to go out to the bar, and I said no because I already have other plans..i said next time? then i called him for coffee and we went. afterwards he said well.. over break (we both in college), if you want to do something, give me a call..and i said yeah..sure and you can give me a call too!
so i feel now that he should call and ask me out, but how about if he doesn't? I think he's nice, I'd like to know more about him. I just want to hang out with him..you know as a friend first. Suggestions? comments? I don't want to seem too eager..
thanks
I met a guy a while back, and he called me to go out to the bar, and I said no because I already have other plans..i said next time? then i called him for coffee and we went. afterwards he said well.. over break (we both in college), if you want to do something, give me a call..and i said yeah..sure and you can give me a call too!
so i feel now that he should call and ask me out, but how about if he doesn't? I think he's nice, I'd like to know more about him. I just want to hang out with him..you know as a friend first. Suggestions? comments? I don't want to seem too eager..
thanks

spiffer81...
What's the problem?
Pianoguy feels that you "left the invitation open for this man to call YOU!"
That's called 'giving a man permission to make contact and ask you out!'
If he's foolish enough to pass up the opportunity...it's HIS LOSS....NOT YOURS!
Pianoguy
I always like to text a guy and just say “hey a few of my friends and I are going to (fill in) for the night. I would love it if you could come. Let me know."
I like this option because it gets around having to have the awkward phone conversation. Plus it doesn't have it coming of as a date but more as a group of friends getting together. But that just what I like.
Good luck!
spiffer81...
Keep us posted on how things went....okay???
Pianoguy