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Dating Question
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 6:23pm |
I've been dating this guy for 1 1/2 months now. We have gone out every weekend except one (my dad was visiting me).
I am not sure at what point I should make myself unavailable. I don't want to do this too soon because I don't want him to think I'm not interested. I hate to play this game, but I've learned the hard way that guys prefer you be somewhat aloof.
Same for the calling thing, it makes me crazy, but I feel that if I call too much they don't like that either. Even if they say call me anytime.
Thoughts?

Now, when I'm out living my life, doing my normal evening and weekend activities like seeing friends, going to concerts, getting massages, rehearsing with my singing group, going on trips...I often *am* unavailable...but that's just the way it is...I'm not artificially creating it.
So, why not just live your life and if you have time to see him do, but don't NOT plan something you would otherwise do just because he might call or want to see you.
Sheri