Dating question
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| Sun, 06-06-2004 - 8:23pm |
I'm confused and don't know what to do. I met this guy on a dating web site and we have been e-mailing for like twelve days. At first he wanted to see me right away and I let him know that I wanted to take things slow. First comunicate thru e-mail then thru the phone and then we can meet in person. Since the day he first sent me an e-mail, he gave me his phone number cause he wanted to talk by the phone right away. But as I said I want to take things slow (because of how we met). I saw a picture of him and really like him and he said that he likes me too. But yesterday he sent me an e-mail saying that he wasn't comfortable with the e-mail thing and that he didn't want to put pressure on me but he wanted to see me or at least talk by the phone. I really don't know what to do since I want to have precaution. Please, I need some advise here!

Thanks a lot, cl-tgowens. You have been very helpful!!
Unless you're just looking for a penpal, it's best to take it to real life sooner rather than later.
And PLEASE let go of any expectations!!! You're just meeting for a cup of coffee. Who knows if you'll hit it off in person or not. Chemistry online or liking someone's picture does NOT mean you will like them in person.
Sheri