Dating someone on and off for 2 years

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Dating someone on and off for 2 years
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Mon, 09-12-2005 - 4:24pm
Hi - I have been dating this guy since 2003- 2004 he went back to school and i started seeing him again this year when he came to work in NYC. Hes an investment banker and he doesnt have much time to date. He doesnt give me his weekend times and didnt even take me out until i told him not to call me anymore. I dont see him much but at this point im older and dont have anyone else. Should i just date him when he wants to see me? and should i give him any more ultimatums? hes 27..im 35.... Im not dtaing anyone else but i do keep my options open...
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Mon, 09-12-2005 - 8:43pm

Hi ctgal... welcome to the board!


The question is... what do YOU want? If you want something serious, then I wouldn't waste your time with this guy. If you're ok with a very loose relationship that may never develop, then it's ok to stay.


I have a feeling though that this guy will not give you what you want in the long run.


Please, let us know what you decide.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 09-13-2005 - 11:04am
I will let you know what happens - thnx for your reply.. :)
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 09-13-2005 - 9:34pm

It doesn't sound like he's treating you with much respect considering how long you've known each other. What are you getting out of this exactly? I think you should put your energies toward meeting someone who is available and eager to enter a real relationship with you.


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