Dating an Unmarried Pastor

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Dating an Unmarried Pastor
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Tue, 03-13-2007 - 12:17am

I am seeing a single pastor. He pastors a Baptist church. The problem is our relationship is a secret and it is so hard sometimes. It's like having an affair with a married man. I can't tell anyone, we have to be careful what we say or do around the members of the church. Sometimes in public he acts like he doesn't know me. Then he calls me later and talks very sweet and loving on the phone.

I'm tired of the secret life. We have to be concerned about running into people in public. This is hard for me. I no longer want to be his secret. I want us to go public. He likes keeping things a secret. Should I dump him.

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Registered: 08-30-2011
Tue, 08-30-2011 - 4:39pm
PS...he's been a Pastor for 30 years...divorced for the last 6 years...

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