Dating younger guy?
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Dating younger guy?
| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 12:06pm |
He is four yrs younger than me, and I know that is not that much of a age difference but he is 21, isn't that around the age when guys are all about just dating around and having fun. Well I'm 25, and I've been there and done that and I'm just looking to settle down now and start something a little more. Defintely not asking to be proposed to or anything just would like somthing more meaningful.
I've known this guy for about 4 months and we just started "talking/dating" just about a week ago. As long as I've known him, he has always flirted w/ me and always joked around and telling me that he loves me, just joking around of course. Once a week we hang out at a bar and i've never even seen him look at another girl so I think thats a good sign right?
I'm just afraid of getting hurt. I know to take it slow but it just doesn't seem to work that way w/ me. When I start liking someone it's kind of immediately...I know that's bad but I can't control my feelings. Well anyways if anyone has any advice or opinions or just anything to say, please do.

A 21 year old does not know what he wants. He's wet behind the ears. He might seem interested now, but at that age, they are so fickle.
I was 27 years old and I went out with a 21 year old. He was gorgeous. We looked the same age. I couldn't stand it another minute. The conversations, the maturity level. One minute he's into me, then the next he sees someone else he'd rather be with then he wants me again? Nope. Can't and won't ever do it again. Besides, a young boy won't do anything but play in your head. My opinion. I wouldn't do it.
On saturday I met his daughter which was ackward but was nice to see what a great dad he was at such a young age. Well I guess I'm just more confused b/c although he claims he likes me a lot, I've just never been asked by the guy I was talking to if I was his girlfriend. And the worst part is all we ever do is hang out at bars or clubs w/ his brother and my friend. They kind of dated/friends as well. We all are just used to hanging out all together but I wished he would just kind of want to do something just by ourselves. i have brought this up before and he just claims that I'm the one who bring my friend along all the time he invites me out to hang out, but he asks me to hang out,so far, only at bars and clubs. He has called me everyday and we hang out everyweekend b/c he works Mon-Thurs at nites (6pm-7am) and i work in the mornings 8am-5pm so the only chance we have is the weekends. So what do you guys think about this weird situation?