dating...all too 'perfect'...have doubts

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Registered: 02-04-2004
dating...all too 'perfect'...have doubts
Wed, 10-27-2004 - 6:19pm
i've gone on a few dates w/ this guy whom i really like. i enjoy spending time w/ him i look fwd to talking to him and seeing him. we've gotten pretty close so far. last night we played pool and there was more flirting then the last time...i initiated and he responded. after that we came back here and chilled. i'm really glad that we finally got to meet up again (3 weeks - multiple fam. emergencies on both sides) but i'm worried that something has to go wrong - or not work out. its been great so far, i'm trying to avoid getting attached incase something doesnt work out so i wont be left heart broken but i really want this so bad.

i was thinking of asking him out for this weekend, taking him to dinner or something casual kinda as a thank you he's been there for me these last few months and i really appreciate it. being that this would be our 3rd date - would it be 'too soon' for me to tell him i want to take him out?