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Decisions,decisions
| Mon, 10-08-2007 - 11:10pm |
I have a dilemma-I was invited to this graduation tomorrow nite for a friend. However, I'm involved in AA, and there's a meeting I'd rather go to (mostly because someone I'm interested in goes there.)I haven't seen him for awhile, and I miss seeing him.
I recently celebrated a year clean & sober, and I want to show it off. He was kind of blowing me off last time I saw him, and I just wanted to let him know how good I'm doing.
I don't want to feel guilty about missing this girl's graduation, though.
What should I do?

Any chance you can go to both?
If not then your friends come first. Especially since this guy did not give you a green light the last time you saw him. Remember putting yourself in front of him will not make him like you more or less. I know it's hard to not go to see a guy you like. But, you have priorities. That is 1. YOU staying happy with your success of clean and sober. Celebrate for yourself. Don't try to get him to be happy for you. Be happy for yourself. 2. Your friend will always be there for you. You haven't even been on a date with this guy. Don't sell out for a guy that hasn't shown any interest.
Remember if you don't go and he does. He might miss you!!!!!
There is always next meeting.