Did he have to try and sleep with me?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-29-2004
Did he have to try and sleep with me?
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Tue, 07-20-2004 - 2:24pm


Would he try to sleep with me on a first date if he really liked me?

Do those things have anything to do with one another?

Should I assume he thinks I'm easy, or is sleeping with the girl something guys have to try no matter what?

I'm confused, please help me.


FYI: We did not sleep together- just a very hot make out session and I led him to the door.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 07-20-2004 - 5:32pm

No, of course, nobody HAS to

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-29-2004
Tue, 07-20-2004 - 6:05pm
Thank you.

I posted that all over the place and yours was the best advice.

I'll give another chance, he went willingly to the door. He almost seemed happy I'd rejected him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Tue, 07-20-2004 - 8:25pm
Since it was a first date and you had a hot make out session, he may want to "pick up where you left" next time he sees you. It's not smart to make out or sleep with a guy the first date or even the second. You give the impression that you're "easy" and for just a "one night stand". Most men take the opportunity if they see it, at the end it's up to the woman to let it happen.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-23-2003
Wed, 07-21-2004 - 11:26am
You're quite welcome, hon.

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