Did He Mean It?
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Did He Mean It?
| Sun, 06-18-2006 - 11:02pm |
I've been dating this guy for a bit over 2 years. Things have been tough at times but we make each other very happy. I had been questioning a lot why he still hadn't said that he loved me after 2 years of being together. This past weekend I went over to his house and we had some wine and I think he had a bit too much. We started fooling around and were about to have sex when he blurted out I love you. I was much more sober at the time and I was confused as to what to say. I didn't know if it was the alcohol or if he really meant it. I don't know if he had just been too shy until then or if he had no idea what he was doing and wanted to have sex. I'm scared to bring it up because I'd be heartbroken if he didn't remember saying it at all. I wanted to say it back but not when he had had too much to drink. I guess now I'm just frustrated. I didn't want that special moment to be like it turned out to be and now to question if he even remembers any of it. I'm wondering if he really meant what he said or if he was just too under the influence to know? Can guys say i love you when they are drunk and really mean it or if he had meant it would he have said it when he was sober?
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| Mon, 06-19-2006 - 12:12am |
Wow, 2 years is a long time to find out if the guy really loves you. There are some guys who can love with out actually saying 'I love you'. Had a guy like that. But 2 years is high time, that you should ask him straightaway if this is going anywhere and whether he really does care and love and cherish, for you to keep being with him. Now, if he says yes, it could be he is just not the type to say the 'love you' thing. But you definitely need to know how serious he is and where he wants this to go. 2 years is a big investment on a relationship without finding out if he really loves and cares or not.
| Mon, 06-19-2006 - 3:41am |
Well, I know that even when I am drunk, I still mean it when I say ' I love you'. My boyfriend also has a hard time saying it, and only has said it recently (we have been together for 2 years)and only once. He was not drunk when he said it, but I dont think it would matter to me because I feel that alcohol doesnt make you say anything, just makes it easier.
