Did he not enjoy the sex?
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| Sat, 06-23-2007 - 4:27pm |
Did my boyfriend not enjoy the sex?
it was a quickie haha so not an ideal first time but he said he enjoyed it very much a couple of times but when i asked for details today he said he didnt want to talk about right then. he instead wanted to talk to me about how he wanted to get buff and quit smoking (please see my other posts if ur confused). how come he doesnt want to talk about it? this is the first man ive slept with that doesnt want to. did he not enjoy it? btw, we've only been bf/gf for 7 days but we dated for a longer period of time.
HIM: CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 30TH)
ME: AQUARIUS (FEB. 2ND)
FIRST TIME TOGETHER- neither of us were/are virgins
QUICKIE BECAUSE OF TIME. Just want to know what I couldve done better. all he said was he wished we had more time.

Do Aquarius women refuse to listen, understand and accept what a man says while over-analyzing everything to the death and destruction of a relationship?
He told you multiple times that he enjoyed himself. What more do your secret expectations demand he say?
You need to learn to step back and let things flow. Very few men are going to willingly dissect to death everything related to a budding relationship. You are going to kill this budding relationship very quickly if you keep this up. You own that responsibility and consequence.
Guys want to hear it was your best sexual experience ever. If you are questioning his enjoyment, he may think it may have not been enjoyable for you. Next time, praise his abilities (even if you have to stretch the truth). You'll raise his confidence, and maybe something else (lol). :)