Did he propose?

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Registered: 05-09-2004
Did he propose?
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 4:31pm
Hi. I am going on 20 and my bf is going on 26. We have been dating a little over a year. We both been through some things, but we love each other. He is in a situation where we wont be able to be around each other for the next 3 months ( a whole new issue). We were talking on the phone and he asked me to tell this lady i was his fiancie and if i could visit him. Then after that, he said "are you my fiance'?". I tried to change the subject twice, but he kept asking me. I said "no" and he was like "aw...you hurt my heart" and i said "you never proposed to me or gave me a ring". Then i asked him why he asked me that and he said "we gon discuss it" and i said "later". So my question is, do you think he was really asking me to be his fiance? And is that considered "proposing" to me, even though he didnt officially do it? Do every that gets proposed to have to have a ring? Thanks in advance.

Allyss

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
In reply to: kk_13_04
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 4:34pm
I don't know what he was getting at. Perhaps he wanted to see what you'd say without actually asking.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-24-2005
In reply to: kk_13_04
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 5:22pm
Perhaps he was just testing to see whether you'd reply with a positive bent or a negative bent when it came to that topic. Eitherways, he does know now, that you are wondering why he hasn't asked you.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
In reply to: kk_13_04
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 1:30pm
You certainly should ask him if he was actually proposing! The conversation was on the phone so understandable no ring but this is something you definitely want to clarify!
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