Did I make a huge mistake?
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Did I make a huge mistake?
| Mon, 08-22-2005 - 11:36pm |
Hi. I've got an issue here: I was dating someone for over 3 years, my first and only boyfriend to that point. We broke up for a variety of reasons, but near the end of our relationship(which was doomed), I was being pursued by someone(J) who knew I wasn't happy in my relationship. He let off the "seeing each other" notion because I told him I would not cheat and had to break things off before I even contemplated seeing him. After I broke things off with my ex, things got kind of back on track with J, but I suddenly just cut all ties. I think it was out of fear and not wanting to "rebound" and do everything for the wrong reasons because I really like this guy. We have not talked since though. Now about 5 months later, I'm happy with me and life is good, so I want to date again. It is not a huge priority because I'm happy with my independence. So my question to anyone who has an idea: how do I let J know that I am interested? I think I made a huge mistake in cutting the cord with hime. I'm nervous because my ex was my first dating experience and I don't even know where to start! And if J is no longer interested that way, where do I start my new dating life? I don't like the idea of meeting at bars though! Thanks.
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| Tue, 08-23-2005 - 9:00am |
First you call up J and see what he is up to. If he is still interested he'll tell you. If not, then you join organizations and clubs where you have interests and meet men who share your hobbies.
