Did I miss something & miss "the talk"?
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Did I miss something & miss "the talk"?
| Mon, 08-16-2004 - 4:12pm |
This may sound crazy but I'm not quite sure if I am now officially in a relationship. How could I have missed it? I'm just as confused as I was going in!
Had a conversation Sat night with this guy that I have been seeing and all of a sudden he starts asking me the following questions...
- What are you looking for exactly?
- What is it about me that you like?
- Are you seeing anyone else?
- Have you ever been in love?
- How many long-term relationships have you been in and how long did they last and were you the one to do most of the "dumping"?
- Do you see yourself ever getting married?
- Do you eventually want kids and if someone didn't want kids for another year to three years...would that be fair to you considering the biological clock?
I woke up the following morning wondering if I am now someone's girlfriend...what do you think??

It sounds like he's feeling you out, but unless he told you want HIS answers to those questions were, it would be premature to assume anything.
Sheri
I had said that I understand what you're saying. I'm just really confused because it was a two-sided conversation...meaning, I ended all my responses with "and you?" And he had said:
- He wanted to get married.
- He wants kids in one to two years and wanted to make sure that that's what I wanted because it wouldn't be fair to me if I wanted them sooner.
- He was seeing other people in the beginning but not now.
- He's had two long-term relationships.
- Yes, he's been in love.
So I don't understand what transpired and if it means anything.
Overall, I would say that it's positive that he brought up those topics. It shows he has serious intent, at least. How long have you been dating?
Sheri