Did I reject him?

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Registered: 10-05-2005
Did I reject him?
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Wed, 10-05-2005 - 1:13pm

Hi, I took a 4 month salsa class that meet once a week, during that time I meet this guy who would always talk to me and was always my partner, he always waited for me and made it a point to find me. The last time we were in class I had to leave as soon as the class ended because I had to meet my sister to go shopping for my mom b-day present. The last day of class we were talking about college, we are both graduate students. He had some info that was really important to me and offered to email it to me. He said that he would email it and grabbed a pencil and paper to start writing my email address. Okay this is really stupid of me but I had imagined him asking for my number when he did that I didnt answer because I was thinking he was not going to ask for my number..i know STUPID!! For some reason I thought he was NOT going to ask for my number, he asked again a second time for my email address and I just looked at him. I know this sounds IMMATURE and STUPID but I was thinking he would ask for my number NOT my email and it made me sad.

His demeanor changed after this and he was cold, he started talking to other girls in class, something he never did and left me alone for the rest of the class. As I was leaving to go, I went to say bye and gave him my business card with my email address and phone number, I also wrote him a sweet message. I told him to please send the info by the end of the week since I really needed it. He barely said bye to me and just told me he would see my later. After that he sent me the info, late my the way and no message in the email only the attachment. Did I screw up?




Edited 10/5/2005 1:16 pm ET by mbella2005
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Wed, 10-05-2005 - 1:47pm
I'm not sure I understand what you might have done wrong. Did you make it apparent that you were disappointed? Did you say anything?
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Thu, 10-06-2005 - 2:04pm
Yes
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