Did something more happen?

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Registered: 07-31-2004
Did something more happen?
Sat, 07-31-2004 - 6:47pm
I met a guy a few months ago while I was on vacation and we hit it off, since then we have kept in touch daily through e-mails, phone calls and chatting online for hours at a time. I'm going back to visit him next week. We're not officially "together" though we kind of are, I know he would be upset if I started seeing someone else and vice versa.

But last night he went out with his roommate and when he got home, he went online so he could talk to me. He was a little drunk, and I asked him how his night was - this is what he said: It was good, we took some people home from the club with us. My reaction - WHAT??? I didn't write anything after that, and then he said it wasn't like that, he would never do anything. They just had to go to the bathroom and get some water before they drove home. Still - WHAT??? There was no bathroom at the club or what? He said they were just people (aka girls) he went to school with and they know he's a one-woman man. He then tells me he is crazy about me and can't even begin to think about anyone else, he's never felt the way about anyone he feels about me...

Part of me is really upset and hurt because I don't know if anything happened, the other part thinks he wouldn't have told me that if something really did happen, maybe he was just being honest and telling me about his night. How am I supposed to interpret this???