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| Fri, 10-26-2007 - 6:23pm |
-amazing date on sunday
-following wednesday night I call him to say thanks for the date I had a great time
-during said phone call I said "so will I hear from you soon?" and he says "Of course, I promise I will call you after the weekend so we can set up a date for the next weekend, I really want to spend more time with you"
-WELL its now friday... friday of the week he said he would call... and no call!!
My friends say its because I'm "intimidating"?!?!?! that I'm 100% together career/financially wise way more than most people who are 25 and that this guy who isn't all together in those ways would be scared off by a girl who is so "independent"... that I "appear to not need a man"!?!?!
They tell me that I have to find a guy who is more like me, limit myself to the white collar crowd... are they being serious??
Is it out of line for me to call him again? I quite like him, and find him incredibly attractive and see that he is on his way to improving his career and totally respect that and find it alluring..
if he is 'intimidated' is that just it, its over??

My experience is that few men are good at saying "thanks but no thanks" when they are on the phone with you and you ask them out or ask something similar to what you did.
Actually you might have nothing to worry about.
funny enough... just as I was working myself into a tizzy he called!
I'm just gonna relax... I've gotta learn to relax! like him for him and hope he likes me for who I am... an-un-relaxed-over-achieving-nut-case :-D
I dont know if he's intimidated, there could be a number of reasons you haven't heard from him - you don't know what's going on in his life.