disappointed

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Registered: 05-19-2004
disappointed
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Mon, 02-27-2006 - 9:27am
Hi,
I am recently divorced. A colleague of mine was taliking to me( I liked him) "when you find time we should go to a movie". I took it as a sign of interest and when I found a free weekend, I asked him if he wanted to go see a movie. he said yes and we went this weekend. After the movie we talked for a couple of minutes, thanked each other and went our separate ways. He did not suggest going to get coffee or eat or anything. I take it as his lack of interest in dating me. I am disappointed. Any thoughts?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: tsvs2004
Mon, 02-27-2006 - 11:04am

tsvs2004...

Personally....Pianoguy thinks the least the 2 of you could've done was share a cup of coffee together.

HOWEVER...it's entirely possible that the gentleman had made other plans...or (and please don't take this the wrong way) YOU WEREN'T THE TYPE OF WOMAN HE WANTED TO SOCIALIZE WITH?

Every colleague you have isn't necessarily going to be part of a couple! This doesn't mean you're not attractive...or can't find someone else who would appreciate you for the nice lady that you are?

Pianoguy

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Registered: 05-19-2004
In reply to: tsvs2004
Mon, 02-27-2006 - 12:41pm
I am a conservative person who comes off as conservative, attractive and smart, he initiated and had the door open with a blank invite to go to a movie and I followed up.