do guys lose respect

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Registered: 02-02-2005
do guys lose respect
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Tue, 08-02-2005 - 7:13am
for a girl if she brings him back to her place the first night she meets them? I did this the other night, but i only made out with the guy. I"d met him before, then i ended up talking to him for most of the night. He bought me a few drinks (hate to think he was trying to get me drunk?) then kept wanting my friends to go to his place or drive me home. I left with my friends and his friend (his friend dates my friend) and he came after us asking if he could drive me home...I finally said ok....then he ended up coming in. I guess this sounds like peer pressure..but i'm 26 so i cant say i should be giving in to that anymore. I hadnt kissed anyone in 3 months...i guess i wanted it to. He stayed pretty late the next day and got my #....we didnt make any plans again, but he seemed into me. We didnt make out too much the next day, just talked....what do you think?
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Tue, 08-02-2005 - 9:01am
It depends on the guy. However, I wouldn't want to associate myself with a man who would lose respect for a lady just because she kissed him. I will assume he did some kissing too.
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 08-02-2005 - 11:39pm

Hey corbeach...


Have you heard from him? Unfortunately, I think a lot of guys would think they can get lucky if they stay with you the first night... but since you didn't have sex, I would say too bad for him!


If he hasn't called, then too bad for him... :)


Keep us posted!

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