Do I ask if he's dating other people?

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Registered: 09-16-2004
Do I ask if he's dating other people?
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Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:28am
I met this great guy on the internet. We emailed for about two weeks, and then we met in person. We had an amazing connection from the start and have gone out 5 times. He calls me every other day to every two days. Now other guys I met through the internet are asking me out. I want to be exclusive, but I don't want to scare him off. Is it too early to have the talk? What should I do? Help!


Edited 9/16/2004 9:59 am ET ET by katesm20
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:43am
I think you two are dating at this point.
Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 06-13-2003
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 9:49am
Well, what do you want? Do you want to be exclusive? Do you want to date these other guys? Since you haven't had the talk yet, I say date the other guys if you want. If you want to be exclusive, go ahead and have the talk. Don't base your actions in this relationship on what he's doing!
 
 
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Registered: 09-01-2004
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 12:10pm
Take the plunge. It never hurts to ask and If hes not interested, start posting yourself again. The sooner you start communicating with your dates- the best all the way around. Tell him your situation- tell him other guys want to take you out- be honest. Tell him how you feel. If he knows other guys are interested- he will probroly jump on it! Give it a shot- and good luck! stacy
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 09-16-2004 - 1:10pm
You aren't going to get what you want if you don't talk about it. He may want to be exclusive with you too, but unsure of where you stand. The worst that can happen is he says he's not ready for that yet. But I also agree that if he's not, then let him know that you will also be dating others.

Good luck!

Alison

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