Do I call or wait?
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Do I call or wait?
| Wed, 04-25-2007 - 11:52am |
I met this guy online we met for drinks one night, and then went out for dinner and drinks the next weekend. On the date he asked me to go out again sometime, blah blah blah. That was almost two weeks ago. I emailed him the a couple days after the date, and he returned my email the next day telling me that he was busy the coming weekend but if I wasn't busy the next (this coming) weekend did I want to hang out again, and that he would call me. I then returned his email and it was kind of blah blah but I didn't say anything about hanging out just that I would talk to him soon.
My question is it's now Wednesday do I call him tonight if he doesn't call me, or let it go?

Hate to be a downer but honestly, if he were really intent on going on a second date, he would be pursuing you a bit more than what he is. Not much more to say than that. If you still want to try again, make it clear that you want to go out and then leave it at that. If he does not respond, do not run after him.
Keep us posted...
Edited 4/25/2007 4:57 pm ET by lightandbright
In the beginning it is kind of nice to be pursued. As long as he knows you're interested, do want to see him, let him make a specific suggestion