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| Thu, 09-08-2005 - 10:19pm |
Hi,
What should I do? A guy I've been casually dating asked me last Friday for dinner plans tomorrow night(friday night). I haven't heard from him all week. A time and a place were not confirmed but am I supposed to just wait till tomorrow to see if he calls me?
Help!!
What should I do? A guy I've been casually dating asked me last Friday for dinner plans tomorrow night(friday night). I haven't heard from him all week. A time and a place were not confirmed but am I supposed to just wait till tomorrow to see if he calls me?
Help!!

It would be interesting to see if he remembers the dinner plans to begin with! (if you could wait for him to call!) He took care enough in advance to plan a dinner night a week away, but hasn't taken care to let you know when and where. Perhaps he doesn't know either? Perhaps he is just a really casual person and thought you both could decide together when you both talk next or when you both meet. Did he talk about dinner casually, or like he really meant it?
I wouldn't see any harm in calling him....instead of waiting all day long, and getting anxious about getting a call from him and worrying about your own individual plans and how it depends on him now. Just not worth all that anxiety. Just call him. See what he says. If you want you could wait until he brings it up himself or ask it directly whether the dinner date's still on.
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you could wait for him to contact you. but not after a point. have ur own plans ready.
And let him know exactly what you prefer next time plans are made. so he knows.
Thanks for asking! We ended up going for dinner sat night. He called me at 8 on Friday night and told me that he thought I could go either Fri or Sat. I gave him a piece of my mind and he apologized. He said that there was no excuse. We had a great night last night. We went for a great dinner. I really have so much fun with him. We have been casually hanging out for the past 2 and a half months. I would like to be with him exclusively but I know he isn't ready. Therefore I am still going on dates with other guys. Unfortunately I haven't like any of the guys as much as I do him.
I'm so glad you had your date. Too bad he doesn't want a real relationship right now. But maybe he will turn around soon and realize you are a good catch and a relationship can only be a good thing. You are doing the right thing by dating other guys and not sitting alone by the phone on weekends.