do i like him or do my friends?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2006
do i like him or do my friends?
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Fri, 06-02-2006 - 5:23pm
so theres this guy i have been friends with for a while but i never liked him like that. hes cute and fun and nice, but he dated a good friend of mine. now she seems to be nudging me towards him. i always flirted with him a lot for all the above reasons and now i think i might have a thing for him. from the sounds of things, it might be mutual. however, i cant tell if i really like him like that or if i just think i do because hes awesome to be around and my friends are insisting i do. any thoughts?
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-21-2003
Fri, 06-02-2006 - 11:13pm
By your post it seems that you like this guy to hang out with and not as a potential BF. However, the only person who can tell if you like him is you. If you feel that you can go beyond flirting with him more into holding hands, kissing and such then you could say that you like him more than a friend.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sat, 06-03-2006 - 3:19pm
No need for all this pressure. Just continue hanging out and being friends. That's a great foundation for a relationship, or if a romance doesn't bloom, friendship is a great thing in and of itself.
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