Do i move on and forget about him

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Registered: 08-13-2002
Do i move on and forget about him
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Fri, 10-27-2006 - 12:22pm

Hi,
so i met this guy online, two weeks ago, we hit it off, and decided to meet. Our date went very good, we both admited, after online, that we liked each other. The other night we were talking online, on the website we met, and i suggested we talk on msn instead. I waited for him there, he never log on. That was really strange..Anyways, we had prior spoke on the phone about getting together sometime this week. He said he would check his schedule in case he had his son over. I called him last night and got his voice mail, and i left a message with my number, and also suggesting if he's still interested in getting together tomorrow night (which is tonight) to call me and let me know either way. If he does not call me back, about tonight, should i just assume, that's he's not interested and move on, and forget about him. Any replies are appreciated.

Thanks.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 1:31pm

Yes. But actually, I find it works better for me to assume that each contact with a guy early on is going to be the last (regardless of what he says-actions speak louder than words esp in the early days of a potential relationship). That way, if he does call/ask me out/whatever, then I'm pleasantly surprised, and if he doesn't, I'm just like 'oh well'.

And remember--you don't have to prod a guy who's interested in you to call you or ask you out.

Sheri

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 10-29-2006 - 7:00am

Well it's extremely rude. Unless he has a valid excuse - an emergency popped up - I dont see why you would want to see him again. IF he's this inconsiderate this early on imagine how it could be later when you're not in the early phase and he's not trying to impress you!


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