Do I tell him I'm dating more than 1 guy

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Registered: 04-29-2004
Do I tell him I'm dating more than 1 guy
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Wed, 07-14-2004 - 1:34pm


I normally wouldn't even consider spilling such secrets but this guy is unlike any other.

He is without a doubt the biggest egomaniac I've ever met (His Ego ofcourse is covering up his deep fear of rejection he developed after a nasty divorce)

So tell me ladies do you let the boys know they have a little competition? If so how has that worked to your benefit?

Thanks for the insight.

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Registered: 05-26-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 1:47pm
Just curious but if he's a major egomaniac, why do you want him to care?

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Registered: 04-29-2004
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 1:53pm
I'm really like the challenge of him. He isn't throwing himself at me and I don't feel like I have complete control over the situation. I like that, what can I say? I feel I have met my match. That's a whole other post I'm afraid- I'm probably what you'd call a commitmentphobic.

But generally I was just wondering if other ladies tell how many people they date and how that has turned out.

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 2:14pm
If I were you, I would tell him you are dating others. See what happens? I personally don't date more than one guy at a time, but that's more due to LACK of guys LOL!

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Registered: 07-21-2003
Wed, 07-14-2004 - 4:32pm
I always told guys that I was dating others. It's very important to me to be honest and upfront about things.