Do promiscuous women have feelings?
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Do promiscuous women have feelings?
| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 5:26pm |
Do women who bed hop have feelings? Are they proud of themselves?
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| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 5:26pm |
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Women that bed hop the majority of them do not do it as conquests on their bedpost, although I suspect there are some that do.
If you ask a lot of women who are "promiscuous" you usually can find that this is the only way they feel they can be loved by guys. Also, many are sexually abused. My best friend was very promiscuous growing up but she was also sexually abused by her father as a child.
I hazard to guess that women who have sex with many partners, the majority don't understand that you don't have to sleep with someone to get them to love you or they were abused and only a small portion, maybe 20% do it to put notches on their bedposts.
Erin
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Michelle
its like they dont have feelings for themselves or the guy. It's just....screw me and leave without any attachment. i guess for these women, it's ok, but too guys it's not. What guy wants an LTR with a slut?
Of course.....The mans job is to get into a womens panties. It's the womens job to start the relationship. I've noticed alot of women who have a ONS will try and turn this into a relationship to cover up the label. The man only wanted sex and thats it. He's done with you, and he's moving on. (keep in mind, these are the barflys and club women) If a women is into ONS, expect to be treated like trash, and that's what he'll do. A women has put herself in this position so she deserves the treatment. You cant blame the guy, though she will blame him because she wont take on the responsibility. I just refuse to be in a relationship with a slut or reformed slut. I will be rude to her, when i find out
i found this article that says it all..........check it out
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5359395/site/newsweek/
Edited 7/5/2004 10:58 pm ET ET by djrazr
I have a friend (sort of) who I consider rather promiscuous. She picks up guys
in bars all the time. She sleeps with them that night, gives them her number, and 99%
of them never call her. She sometimes feels hurt, other times she doesn't care at all.
She explained to me recently that she hadn't had a boyfriend in a long time and it feels
good to be desired, or feel like someone wants you. To her it is worth it to feel good
about herself for one night.
She is starting to realize this is not how she is going to meet her "mr right"
but she has yet to stop. A couple of us challenged her to go 60 days or 2 months without
sex. She couldn't do it, I think she made it a whole 6 weeks or so.
Do I think she has good self esteem, hell no. But I try not to be judgmental.
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Your rationalization that a man would be called a stud by his peers and thus wouldn't have emotional negativity as a result of casual sex....means that men are JUST as emotionally driven as women and becuase the emotional result would be positive because the comment would be positive - he'd "driven to have casual sex to get the approval of others."
Erin
quickblade14@hotmail.com
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