Do promiscuous women have feelings?
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Do promiscuous women have feelings?
| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 5:26pm |
Do women who bed hop have feelings? Are they proud of themselves?
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| Mon, 07-05-2004 - 5:26pm |
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Relationships is a large community of members who have many different life experiences, values systems and beliefs.
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Unfortunately some women and some men equate sex with love. That if they give in and have sex with someone that person will love them. Doesn't ususally turn out that way, so they move on to the next person hoping for *love*.
Are they proud? Probably not. They were probably looking for a relationship and set themselves up for failure because they didn't take the time to get to know the person. Would someone who sleeps with someone after dating them for awhile be considered promiscuous too?
Some could have been abused as kids, or just never had a good role model growing up. Everyone has a different idea of promiscuous and personally I don't know anyone who I would consider promiscuous.
They do not feel remorse, they are selfish and don't think beyond their own needs.
No one else enters into the equation. Guys who end up with them are not permanent and it says something about their own character is they are ok with the promiscuity or if no and stay then they have no self esteem
I lived with a sociopath for 3 years it was like taking a psych class.
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No, you are wrong. People change all the time, especially when they've accepted Jesus. When someone comes to accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, He no longer sees them as a slut, thief, liar, etc. When you accept Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior, He sees you as the human He created, and he no longer sees your past. Other people may focus on your past, but not Jesus. Everyone has someone who loves them, and it's Jesus. It's men who share in your attitude who give women a bad name. What's wrong with a reformed woman? She's seen the sin in her life and has changed her ways. Jesus knows a person's heart. Not you.
How do you know the woman you are belittling hasn't been sexually abused? The one person that was supposed to be her protector - her dad - sexually abused her - or an uncle, etc. This type of woman begins to think that's all she's wanted for from men. No wonder she sleeps around! Or she comes in contact with too many people like you and feels like maybe she should become homosexual. It's a proven fact - sexually abused women either end up sleeping around, or they enter into a homosexual lifestyle. A lot of times, it ends up being both. Very few end up clamming up and not being intimate with anyone due to the rotten memories the sexual abuse left in her mind (me). If she does sleep with a guy, she's labeled as a whore. If she doesn't sleep with a guy, she's labeled as a prude. Sexual abuse can either ruin a woman's sexual drive, or boost it. While we're on the subject of belittling someone... How do you know that your negative comment to her won't be the deciding factor in her taking her life? People need to realize that they have to be careful what they say to people. Everyone has their own faults... their own flaws - EVERYONE. You, included. I would THINK the next time you are tempted to belittle a woman. You may be losing the best friend you ever could've had. Visit my site for a little more insight.
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