Do promiscuous women have feelings?

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Do promiscuous women have feelings?
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Mon, 07-05-2004 - 5:26pm
Do women who bed hop have feelings? Are they proud of themselves?

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:19pm
Everyone has feelings.

Unfortunately some women and some men equate sex with love. That if they give in and have sex with someone that person will love them. Doesn't ususally turn out that way, so they move on to the next person hoping for *love*.

Are they proud? Probably not. They were probably looking for a relationship and set themselves up for failure because they didn't take the time to get to know the person. Would someone who sleeps with someone after dating them for awhile be considered promiscuous too?

Some could have been abused as kids, or just never had a good role model growing up. Everyone has a different idea of promiscuous and personally I don't know anyone who I would consider promiscuous.

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:30pm
It depends on the person. I had a friend who was younger than me, and slept with about 30 guys by the time she was 21. It was sad. She just didn't understand that sex was not the way to find/creat a long-term partner. Most of the men she dated or had sex with were only in it for one thing...obviously. Other times women can be just like some men. In it only for the nookie. :/
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Registered: 07-06-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 3:50pm
I think they are similar to men who are sexually promiscuous they have sociopathic aspects to their personalities.

They do not feel remorse, they are selfish and don't think beyond their own needs.

No one else enters into the equation. Guys who end up with them are not permanent and it says something about their own character is they are ok with the promiscuity or if no and stay then they have no self esteem

I lived with a sociopath for 3 years it was like taking a psych class.
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Registered: 05-17-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 5:50pm
30 guys at 21? Thats common these days.No man will ever want a women with a past like that. She cant be trusted plain and simple,being the fact she cant trust herself. Its sad to know that its only going to get worse. These women have no morals & values. They feel like their being loved.......When are some of these women going to come to their sense and grow up?
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 6:01pm
Probably when the promiscuous men do.
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 6:09pm
Why in the world would you ask such a question? You must think that women who are promiscuous have no feelings or you wouldn't have asked. What on earth made you even think this? What happened? You got burned by some gal, didn't you? By promiscuous, I assume you mean having sex freely and without having to be in a relationship or perhaps cheating while in a relationship?
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Registered: 12-23-2003
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 6:15pm
Omigod... Is that YOU Sally?

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 6:36pm
I'll email you at home!

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Registered: 04-17-2004
Tue, 07-06-2004 - 6:53pm
YOU WROTE: "The way to tell a persons future is focus on their past. For example - once a cheater, always a cheater, once a slut, always a slut.This is a proven fact."

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No, you are wrong. People change all the time, especially when they've accepted Jesus. When someone comes to accept Jesus as their Lord and Savior, He no longer sees them as a slut, thief, liar, etc. When you accept Jesus as your personal Lord and Savior, He sees you as the human He created, and he no longer sees your past. Other people may focus on your past, but not Jesus. Everyone has someone who loves them, and it's Jesus. It's men who share in your attitude who give women a bad name. What's wrong with a reformed woman? She's seen the sin in her life and has changed her ways. Jesus knows a person's heart. Not you.

How do you know the woman you are belittling hasn't been sexually abused? The one person that was supposed to be her protector - her dad - sexually abused her - or an uncle, etc. This type of woman begins to think that's all she's wanted for from men. No wonder she sleeps around! Or she comes in contact with too many people like you and feels like maybe she should become homosexual. It's a proven fact - sexually abused women either end up sleeping around, or they enter into a homosexual lifestyle. A lot of times, it ends up being both. Very few end up clamming up and not being intimate with anyone due to the rotten memories the sexual abuse left in her mind (me). If she does sleep with a guy, she's labeled as a whore. If she doesn't sleep with a guy, she's labeled as a prude. Sexual abuse can either ruin a woman's sexual drive, or boost it. While we're on the subject of belittling someone... How do you know that your negative comment to her won't be the deciding factor in her taking her life? People need to realize that they have to be careful what they say to people. Everyone has their own faults... their own flaws - EVERYONE. You, included. I would THINK the next time you are tempted to belittle a woman. You may be losing the best friend you ever could've had. Visit my site for a little more insight.

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