do u let the guy pursue or the girl?

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Registered: 05-03-2003
do u let the guy pursue or the girl?
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Tue, 10-02-2007 - 10:34pm

Question--If you started dating somone do u think it is proper for the girl to call the guy or to

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Registered: 08-26-2007
Wed, 10-03-2007 - 9:42am
In todays world, dating world, the guy doing all of the pursuing is a bit out-dated. Your friends are right, if you don't call him or make contact with him, he will think you aren't interested. There is nothing wrong with a female initiating contact with a male today. Having said that, it would be a problem if she was doing ALL the calling or calling too much, ie... several times a day, especially during work hours.
LG
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 10-03-2007 - 12:23pm

Do you believe in the concept of - great relationships are equality-based and mutually-beneficial?


If YES, then what would be so wrong with both people doing things that are positive and proactive for the better good of the relationship?


Men often get bashed with the context of - He's Just Not That Into You - yet women rarely have any measurements or responsibilities early in the relationship.

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Registered: 09-30-2007
Sun, 10-07-2007 - 2:25am

I think women need to call the guy and initiate things some times.

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Registered: 01-16-2005
Sun, 10-07-2007 - 10:19pm

Hey Rob,


So you, as

PATTY

~Dare to believe in yourself~