Do you return the call?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-09-2005
Do you return the call?
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Mon, 08-07-2006 - 12:36pm
Hi, This has probably been asked already, but I was wondering, if a guy calls you but does not leave a message you don't return the call right?
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Registered: 05-15-2006
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 1:19pm
I wouldn't. Not leaving a message is like you didn't call at all. What if the person called your number by accident. If they want to speak to you, not only will they leave a message, they'll ask you to return the call.
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Registered: 11-24-2004
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 5:12pm
I agree with Goddesssue. If you call him back just because you saw his number on the caller id, you could appear anxious to hear from him.

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Registered: 03-09-2005
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 6:31pm
Thanks both of you for replying I agree with what both of you said.....although I VERY much want to talk to him I know in my heart its not a good idea to call him back. Well lets see if he calls again...
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Registered: 10-08-2005
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 8:25pm

I return the call if I know the person, and say "hey, did you call?"

I'm not sure what I would do, however, if it were a new dating thing...in all honesty, I might return the call. It's not fatal if you seem anxious...if he's stingy with responses or distant, you'll find out soon enough.

Just my opinion :)