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| Thu, 02-23-2006 - 1:07pm |
I met a guy online through Match.Com. This was not my first, but he was someone that I really liked to talk to. We talked on the phone for about 3 weeks then we met in person. In that three weeks we would talk maybe every two days, sometimes 3 days. When we met this past Saturday, it was very informal. My suggestion was for him to meet me at the dog park that I go to periodically. The evening ended up being cold and windy and in addition to that I had to go to the other side of the park because the area where we park for the dog park was completely full due to soccer games that were going on. To make a long story short, he showed up, I thought we conversed very well. We only ended up being out for about an hour because it was pretty chilly with the wind and all. When we parted we didn't hug or shake hands, it was kind of an ackward moment of saying goodbye. He is leaving for a cruise this weekend which he said we would not be able to talk until he got back to main land, but we would of course talk during the week and before he left. That evening just after leaving to go home, I sent him a text to thank him for coming to meet me and that I appreciated that he delt with cold. He responed saying "It was really nice to meet you! Have a good night and I will talk to you soon!". Sunday I texed just to say that I hope he had a good day. He responed saying what he did that day and that he hope I too had a good day. Then late Monday evening (he rotates working day and evening shifts) he texed me to say "Hi hope your day is good. Working all week which s*cks! Have a good night!". I responed saying that my day was good and that I looked forward to talking to him soon. He responed saying "...I will talk to you this week".
So far I have not heard from him. He is a really nice guy and I am starting to think that maybe he was just trying to be polite with me. Should I even try to send and email or call or if I don't hear anything then just let it be? He leaves for Florida for his cruise Saturday and I won't hear from him for seven days. I guess if it were me and I liked someone and knew that I was going to gone for a while and not be able to talk to them that I would have tried to make and effort right away. Even if he is working the evening shift, there have been a couple of occasions before we met that he called me during his break from work.
Let me know what you think. Thanks so much!

I'd let it go for now, he's probably preoccupied getting ready for his trip, hopefully he'll contact you before he leaves but try to let him make the contact
after he gets back give him several days then send a quick email to see how it went but hopefully you will hear from him before that.
good luck