do you think he'll call?

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Registered: 08-03-2005
do you think he'll call?
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Fri, 11-10-2006 - 4:59pm

I know no one really knows if he'll call...but i'm curious as to what you think. This is a little awkward. I went out the other night, met up with some friends. With them was this guy from my town. I didnt know him, but he knew my brother, who my dad is, etc. We talked the whole night, and yeah i was a little tipsy, so was he and we made out...his friends left and he had no where to go...except home with me (: So he stayed over, slept in my bed, we made out...but nothing more than that. That morning, we talked and made out more and he kept saying, this is so weird, this never happens, usually when stuff like this has happened to me, i feel awkward and woudlnt be lying in bed talking and cuddling and making out. He kept telling me what a good kisser i am, he couldnt keep his hands off me. It was actually really nice...i'm sure it doesnt sound like it from what i described, lol..but he was a great cuddler/kisser, we just seemed to have this great chemistry. And we talked about each other a lot. We layed there for over 3 hours just doing this. I finally said, so do you think we'll hang out again after this? He just said, would you want to? He said he would and that we coudl go out. After that, he made several references to us hanging out again.

I ended up driving him to where he needed to be that day and when he got out of the car he took down my number. He said, ok I will give you a call. THis was yesterday at 1pm and i havent heard from him...I guess i wouldnt have expected him to call that night of the day i dropped him off...but i guess i am feeling worried that he wont call at all. Things really seemed nice when we were together...i'd like to hang out again and he really seemed into me...and he wasnt trying to get in my pants at all. He just said how this is one of his favorite things to do (cuddle, kiss) ahhh, i dont know? I hate this waiting game...i know it hasnt been long, but seems like the ones i want to call, never do.

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Fri, 11-10-2006 - 7:42pm

I have no idea whether he will call or not. Did you ask whether he had a girlfriend? Did you ask whether he was interested in dating? Does he want a relationship? Does he have time for a relationship?

You put the ball directly into his court and now you have to wait and wait and wait to see whether he does what you want him to do. Next time, rather than ask whether he wants to see you again, ask HIM whether he wants to take a walk by the lake and have coffee on Saturday at 2PM.

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Fri, 11-10-2006 - 8:41pm
Sweetie, when he feels the need to cuddle and kiss he'll call you. Are you looking for something casual like cuddling and kissing with him like you did that night? OR are you looking for something more serious?
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Registered: 02-02-2005
Sat, 11-11-2006 - 10:31am
i agree that we dont know when he'll call. I think it's a bit much that youd expect him to call the next day after seeing him though. Most guys dont call the very next day they normally wait a few days before contacting. From what you described i'd think he would call (for what i dont know, probably to hook up again) but I'd be suprised if you didnt hear from him ever again.
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Registered: 08-03-2005
Sat, 11-11-2006 - 7:17pm
thanks...i hope he calls...still hasnt yet...it's been 2 days now i guess? i hate this waiting period...i feel like maybe he wouldnt call now since he's back at school and it's the weekend. I guess if he doesnt call by sunday/monday night...then that's that...
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 9:55pm
I know these things are hard. He might very well call but there are no guarantees. Take some deep breaths - go do something fun that engages you and try to chill.
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Registered: 08-03-2005
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 10:15pm
thanks. Well he didnt call so at this point im thinking he's not going to...last time i talked to him was thursday afternoon when i dropped him off...he's probably forgotten about me by now.